Uprooted NEVER Unsettled

Jana shares secrets on how to transition well while in the military because she they have moved 11 times in their 20 years. Let her show you how to embrace your role, hold on to things loosely, and forming new relationships quickly! https://www.groundedandsurrounded.com/uprooted-never-unsettled/

 An Interview with Jana Shankle

Jana shares secrets on how to transition well while in the military because she they have moved 11 times in their 20 years. Let her show you how to embrace your role, hold on to things loosely, and forming new relationships quickly! https://www.groundedandsurrounded.com/uprooted-never-unsettled/Jana and Paul Shankle have moved 11 times in their 20 years of marriage.  Paul’s military career has allowed them to travel the world, but it has also forced them out of their comfort zone.  They have moved overseas three separate times, and never lived anywhere longer than 4 years.  Jana and Paul have two beautiful children, and have recently retired from the military and settled in Rapid City, South Dakota.  Through the process of trial and error, Jana learned how to transition well.  In this article, she shares how she survived being uprooted so often without becoming unsettled.

Embrace your Role

Jana shares secrets on how to transition well while in the military because she they have moved 11 times in their 20 years. Let her show you how to embrace your role, hold on to things loosely, and forming new relationships quickly! https://www.groundedandsurrounded.com/uprooted-never-unsettled/

“As a military wife, my role is to support my husband.  I don’t mean to sound all June Cleaver 1950’s, but understanding and accepting my role has helped me thrive as a military wife.”

Jana went on to explain that military wives often sacrifice their own career goals, family roots, and friendships because of how often their family is uprooted.  Jana herself was enrolled in 4 separate universities before she graduated with her degree in psychology.  She quickly realized that she had a choice to make: Embrace military life and choose to thrive where she was planted, or live a life full of self pity and regret.  Jana chose to look at her life as an adventure, and is so grateful for the fact that she has been able to travel the world with the people she loves most.  Yes, there have been sacrifices and challenges along the way, but isn’t that the case for us all?

Hold on to Things Loosely

"Keeps Box" Find out what a military wife does to keep the most important items for each family member throughout 11 moves! Jana shares secrets on how to transition well while in the military. Let her show you how to embrace your role, hold on to things loosely, and forming new relationships quickly! This is the perfect organization and DIY for anyone! https://www.groundedandsurrounded.com/uprooted-never-unsettled/

“I have seen people who try to take everything with them at each move and the task is just daunting.”

Knowing that you are going to be moving often changes the way you view things.  Jana shared with us how important it has been for her to contemplate what is important to keep and what is not.  Each move brings its own unique challenges, as some military housing has awesome storage and some does not.  If you are willing to take the time to evaluate your possessions and regularly purge out the excess, it will save you a lot of frustration in the long run.  In Jana’s family, each person gets a KEEPS box (aka a Rubbermaid tote). You can put whatever you want in it, and when it gets full you have to figure out what to keep and what to get rid of.

Hit the Ground Running

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“In most places we have lived 1/3 of the community turned over every year.  There was always someone new, and always someone moving out, so you were never the new person for long.”

Jana shared with us how important it is to drop your walls quickly, because if you don’t, you will be moving on to the next location before you make any real friends.  If you aren’t naturally extroverted, you have to find a way to step out of your shell in order to thrive.  Jana and Paul always try to hit the ground running, and for them that means finding a local church.  When you find a group of people who share your values and faith, friendships quickly develop.  Another trick Jana has learned is to shamelessly use her kids to make connections with people in the same life stage.  Get them involved in sports, music, or other community events and don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation with the mom sitting next to you on the bleachers.

We are so thankful for Jana and hope her advice will encourage other women who are beginning their own journey as military wives. If you aren’t in the military, we hope you are inspired to reach out to the military families in your own community.  Being uprooted so often can’t be easy, and sometimes all it takes is one friend to make a new place feel like home.

Jana shares secrets on how to transition well while in the military because she they have moved 11 times in their 20 years. Let her show you how to embrace your role, hold on to things loosely, and forming new relationships quickly! https://www.groundedandsurrounded.com/uprooted-never-unsettled/

[Author Note: Sammi and I met Jana when her husband Paul moved their family from Germany to South Dakota last year.  Paul is now retired from the military and working in a full time ministry position.  Our children attend the same school, and we also attend church and Bible study with Jana. She is such an inspiration to us, and it was an incredible honor to interview her for this article. -Sarah]

About Sarah Koontz

Sarah Koontz is a freelance writer and regular contributor at Grounded & Surrounded. If you are interested in growing your faith, nourishing your family life, and discovering the beauty of God's design, be sure to follow her personal blog at SarahKoontz.com. When Sarah is not writing, you are likely to find her covered in dirt, sitting in the middle of her garden, adoring her beautiful flock of backyard chickens. She is eternally grateful for her husband and two little girls, and revels in their simple, uncluttered life. You can also find her on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Pinterest.

3 thoughts on “Uprooted NEVER Unsettled

  1. Ladies! Thanks for the opportunity to share a glimpse into the military life! So many wives have it way harder than I did! So many of my friends in the military are true Heros! May God bless our military families!

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